**Disclaimer** The thoughts and words posted here are my opinions and thoughts from what I have experienced, nothing less, nothing more, just opinions, much like elbows every has them…………onto the posting****
Before I go into my actual reason for posting, I will update health wise. Today it was been 4 weeks since my Oral surgery, and the gums are healing up great Doc says they are healing better than he imagined they would. Yayyyy!
Thanksgiving is right around the corner and Dack and I’s family have yet to prove to surprise us again this year. Same ole same ole’ His Dad is driving two times the distance it would be to here to spend the holiday with his brother, and Dack’s brother’s “boyfriend” doesn’t like to share and won’t let his brother bring our nephews down to spend the holidays with us. Our son left for Alaska in April and our daughter lives in Ohio and her Bio Dad brought her step sisters up so they all could spend the week with them. So it will be just my husband and myself, we have plans with friends, & things are going to be great Our families are fairly reliable every year, they leave us out every time, I am used to it, my family has always been pieces of shit, however my husband was used to his mom making everyone come over and making everyone get along. When she passed away, that all stopped and it seemed his father and brother couldn’t have been happier they finally got to do what they wanted to do……………FINALLY, to which didn’t include us.
Ok now the drumroll………………………to announce the newest “Trend” when you decide you dont like something one of your friends does or say the newest thing is “DE-FRIENDING” them on Facebook. Really?…………………………………..seriously like this is goint to hurt my feelings. It tells me one thing straight on, you’re a coward, if you can’t tell me and talk to me like an adult why you have a problem with me, you think that it is going to shatter my world that you take me of your friends list.
This particular friend I know why he did it. he started in giving me parental advise, again Hi he is a 46yr old man been divorced 20yrs and has no kids, and he decided he thought some girl he slept with years ago that had a baby that is what his. 13yrs later he goes to the grandparent tells her he is sure it is his kid and then he manages to TALK to this little girl without her MOTHER knowing(if this was my kid he would be dead) was promising to pay her college tuition, and I Pad and a shit ton of other things, all this while getting evicted from apt after apt working a temp job that does catering jobs, so he is a 46yr old waiter, who says he can get other jobs, but doesn’t. Now………here is what I think happened and I was thinking it would happen all along. He had a paternity test done and she isn’t his………..and OMG this guy can’t ever be wrong, he will go off the grid before someone finds out he is wrong. What he doesn’t realize is that he is wrong a lot and a lot of ppl know, he is the only one that doesn’t know that he is wrong lol. He claims to be a “Famous” photographer, an Award winning writer (One award), he sells himself as a novelist to which he probably sold 30 copies that he independently published so NO ONE has ever heard of his book. He gets an article or two published in magazines, like Obscure sports digest (movie reference) His whole persona is fake. Yet he criticizes everyone about every little fault they have, basically to make himself feel better. So, the only reason I notice he had de friended me was my hubby has a Chrome program that tells you when someone de-friends you the date and time lol I was in using the office computer and that is where the program is on the browser. He came in looked over my shoulder and I had the page open to see who it was, and my hubby was like awwww I guess you won’t get to share in all that wealth and fame he has, he is too good for you know baby, and we both laughed, and I said well at least when he gets kicked out of his next place he won’t be asking us to stay here, that is a huge plus. lol So this new hurt your feeling’s trend…………not catching on.
He can sit and waste time pretending he is someone important, when I know I am important my husband and kids and that is satisfaction enough. When he is getting evicted from his next apartment, trailer, hotel or where ever I will be fast asleep, because this fellas style is to jump ship in the middle of the night.
Be aware people of St. Louis, Mo Tommy “Jonq” as he calls himself, is his double personality where he lives out his fantasy world. For all you CREDITORS Thomas Horan will rent from you and disappear in the night owing you rent. He works for Temporary Companies for a reason……can’t run out on your bill when you work for a REAL corporation Ask a sleep by numbers company manager to run his name, he bought a bed in Iowa and never paid for it or so he claims, he lives a lie so you never know when he is lying or if he even knows the difference is anymore. His mother was a brilliant woman, she was also an alcoholic, and was bipolar schizophrenic, to which has more than noticeably been passed down to him, he feels it all a matter of mind over matter, if he thinks he isn’t mentally ill he won’t be. LMAO Wouldn’t it be nice if were that easy. Be very careful around this man, I have known him my whole life, he is manipulative, vindictive, & he will be-friend you to get what he can suck out of you for his needs and then drop you like a bad habit. He owes a mutual friend of ours quite a bit of money and as to here my friend tell it, its the opposite way around…seeing a pattern, here he lives in a twisted little world that suits his needs and his only. Our mutual friend said he never expected to get it back when he helped him out, He says the same as I do, he will never change, he see’s us as all being unstable, instead of the other way around.
I have recorded conversation of this man’s ramblings and my husband, friends & my psychiatrist has listened, and he said its ramblings of a bipolar schizophrenia, with Narcissistic personality disorder, & other things, he has let other Dr’s listen and this man can be dangerous the longer he goes without treatment. So if you know him… congratulations he is your friend now and no longer mine, I don’t need any more chaos in my life. I like it boring as it is now.
Will post again in a couple days………..until then………….BE CAREFUL ST. LOUIS, MO (kind of another movie reference ending lmao)
